Those who are very sensitive tend to care a lot about how you feel but be easily hurt and build a wall around them, refusing to open up unless they feel safe again.
Those who pay strong attention to details, are usually neat and adept in running households or organizing good dates but may often be frustrated often at your carelessness or absentmindedness.
Most who are highly ambitious, or successful, tend to be very perfectionist. They need a lot of assurance or their insecurity could manifest itself in a lot of ways.
Remedies:
Firstly, adjust your expectations, know that there are two sides to everything.
Secondly, if you realize you have flaws, work on them so that they do not hurt others.
Thirdly, know that others are not perfect but they love you in spite of your flaws.
“You have been told that, even like a chain, you are as weak as your weakest link. This is but half the truth. You are also as strong as your strongest link. To measure you by your smallest deed is to reckon the power of ocean by the frailty of its foam. To judge you by your failures is to cast blame upon the seasons for their inconstancy.” - Kahlil Gibran
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