It s cruel but the fact that we (Humans) usually would not tend to share the unpleasant or bad experiences with the closest ones..Why are we hesitating?
What are we afraid of?
We are Human.. it s normal to have feelings..
Troubled work Husband doesnt share with his Housewife the toughness of handling frequent traveling & demanding Bosses..
Lonely Housewife doesnt whine abt her loneliness and emptiness of having a Travel Husband.. Leaving Tonnes of Misses apart..
Grandson/Grand-daughter cum Son/Daughter cum Gf/Bf.. Having a hard time maintaining LDR.. Endless worries & regrets tt they cant be there to share the Best and the Worst..
On the other hand.. if you are there.. right infront of them.. Do you have the courage to pour, to be there as a listener?
Even if we do, what do we get in return?!
Venting & pouring Emotions... It s jus a selfish way to make ourselves feel better & obtain the other party(s) sympathy & then eventually affect his/her/their mood..
BUT... keeping Everything in the bottom of your heart.. doesnt make any difference..
One day.. you will EXPLODE.. It s Unhealthy...
Guess WE/HUMAN jus need to judge.. Make the decisions tt would benefit us the most.. & subsequently absorbed the LEAST Opportunity Cost~
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